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shani New Member

 Number of posts: 47 Age: 26 Location: Quetta Humor: joke Job/hobbies: Pharmacist, study Reputation: 3 Points: 897 Registration date: 2010-02-03
 | Subject: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:33 am | |
| Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to
bat cheet band kar deni chaie
what you People think???????????????? |
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sat Feb 13, 2010 6:00 am | |
| Hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Good Topic. Well The question is that when we feel that we have been hurted? When we expect something from our dears. (Expectations) are the major source. Insan jb be expectations rakta hain to wo hurt ho jata hain. maray mutabiq "DARGuZAR" karna iss ka elaj hain. Q k kisi be relations kp kamiyab banay k leye "COMPROMISES" bht lazmi factor hota hain. kisi ny kya khob kaha hain k "when you have many friends than you must have done many compromises" according to me we have to neglect these things. If that relation is more then our ego. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has also given the lesson of "DARGuZAR" so that is the answer according to me. |
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Smart Aleck Admin

 Number of posts: 6669 Age: 36 Location: Karachi Humor: Call: 0321-234-7005 Job/hobbies: Business Consultant Reputation: 17 Points: 4816 Registration date: 2008-01-16
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sat Feb 13, 2010 5:37 pm | |
| Hurted? HBK, I think you mean Hurt... Right?
Ok, coming back to the question...
Agar hum aik hadees ko apnay zehan main bitha len to phir aisi situation peda nahi hogi:
Huzoor e Pak (saw) nay farmaya "Momin aik sooraakh say kabhi 2 baar dassa nahi jata hay". _________________ http://www.facebook.com/wow.wahab
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:01 pm | |
| oppppppppppppppppppssssssssssssss! yeah HURT.......................................... Sahi kaha app ny wahab bhie. I do agree. |
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:04 pm | |
| Lakin Hazoor (SAW) ny yeah be Arshad farmaya hain k " Kisi k baray main jaldi raye qaiem na karo. Ho sakta hain k jo tm samajtay ho wo us tarha na ho" Ho sakta hain baz oqaat kisi majbori ki waja sy hum kisi ko hurt karay lakin isska yeh matlab nahe k hum us sy nata he tor day. |
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qamar.shahzad AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 2851 Age: 24 Location: karachi Job/hobbies: poetry and study Reputation: 8 Points: 4688 Registration date: 2008-01-27
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:15 am | |
| | shani wrote: | Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to
bat cheet band kar deni chaie
what you People think???????????????? |
بہت اہم سوال ہے میرے خیال میں آپ کو ھرٹ وہی کرتا ہے جسے آپ بہت پسند کرتے ہیں تو ایسے لوگوں کو بھلانا آسان نہیں ہوتا ہو سکتا ہے اسے کوئی غلط فہمی ہوئی ہو اگر کوئی آپ کو ہرٹ کرتا ہے تو آپ اس سے بات چیت ختم مت کریں بلکہ اپنے قول و فعل سے اسے غلط ثابت کریں |
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 5:56 am | |
| | qamar.shahzad wrote: | | shani wrote: | Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to
bat cheet band kar deni chaie
what you People think???????????????? |
بہت اہم سوال ہے میرے خیال میں آپ کو ھرٹ وہی کرتا ہے جسے آپ بہت پسند کرتے ہیں تو ایسے لوگوں کو بھلانا آسان نہیں ہوتا ہو سکتا ہے اسے کوئی غلط فہمی ہوئی ہو اگر کوئی آپ کو ہرٹ کرتا ہے تو آپ اس سے بات چیت ختم مت کریں بلکہ اپنے قول و فعل سے اسے غلط ثابت کریں
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Qamar Bhi Main app sy agree karta hn. 100% 
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qamar.shahzad AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 2851 Age: 24 Location: karachi Job/hobbies: poetry and study Reputation: 8 Points: 4688 Registration date: 2008-01-27
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 6:17 am | |
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Smart Aleck Admin

 Number of posts: 6669 Age: 36 Location: Karachi Humor: Call: 0321-234-7005 Job/hobbies: Business Consultant Reputation: 17 Points: 4816 Registration date: 2008-01-16
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 5:15 pm | |
| | heartbreakking wrote: | Lakin Hazoor (SAW) ny yeah be Arshad farmaya hain k " Kisi k baray main jaldi raye qaiem na karo. Ho sakta hain k jo tm samajtay ho wo us tarha na ho" Ho sakta hain baz oqaat kisi majbori ki waja sy hum kisi ko hurt karay lakin isska yeh matlab nahe k hum us sy nata he tor day. |
Dono Ahaadees humaray samnay hain, na janay aik hi mozoo per 2 mukhtalif baaten kyon hadees hain. Kaheen kuch gurr burr hay _________________ http://www.facebook.com/wow.wahab
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shani New Member

 Number of posts: 47 Age: 26 Location: Quetta Humor: joke Job/hobbies: Pharmacist, study Reputation: 3 Points: 897 Registration date: 2010-02-03
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 8:14 pm | |
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Sun Feb 14, 2010 9:15 pm | |
| | Smart Aleck wrote: | | heartbreakking wrote: | Lakin Hazoor (SAW) ny yeah be Arshad farmaya hain k
" Kisi k baray main jaldi raye qaiem na karo. Ho sakta hain k jo tm samajtay ho wo us tarha na ho"
Ho sakta hain baz oqaat kisi majbori ki waja sy hum kisi ko hurt karay lakin isska yeh matlab nahe k hum us sy nata he tor day. |
Dono Ahaadees humaray samnay hain, na janay aik hi mozoo per 2 mukhtalif baaten kyon hadees hain. Kaheen kuch gurr burr hay |
nahe gurr burr nahe. I can give the reference of this Hadees. Nahjul balagha (Hikmat) |
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Smart Aleck Admin

 Number of posts: 6669 Age: 36 Location: Karachi Humor: Call: 0321-234-7005 Job/hobbies: Business Consultant Reputation: 17 Points: 4816 Registration date: 2008-01-16
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Mon Feb 15, 2010 6:06 pm | |
| To phir hum kiya akhaz karen... aik sooraakh say 2 baar dassay na jaaen ya phir bharosa karen... dono baaten aik doosray kay ullat hain... aap khud dekh len _________________ http://www.facebook.com/wow.wahab
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maryam New Arrival
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 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:45 am | |
| agar koi baar baar hurt kary to bhi aap us se baat karna na chorrain...pather par pani ki boondain musal sal girain to us main soorakh ban jata hai ... sa aap apny nazuk se dimagh ko kuch bhi akhaz karny ki zehmat na dain kion k har hadees ka koi na koi background hai pls pls kam az kam deeni maamlaat main baal ki khaal mat nikalain....jo hadees hai woh hai hamara iman ahadees ko bila chuncharan tasleem karny main hai ...in main apny fazool ki tehqeeq karny main nehi... |
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qamar.shahzad AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 2851 Age: 24 Location: karachi Job/hobbies: poetry and study Reputation: 8 Points: 4688 Registration date: 2008-01-27
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Tue Feb 16, 2010 7:03 am | |
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heartbreakking AM Cool Buddy

 Number of posts: 1820 Age: 28 Location: QUETTA Humor: Which makes me smile Job/hobbies: Lecturer (Physics) Reputation: 2 Points: 1744 Registration date: 2008-01-21
 | Subject: Re: Agar koi bar bar HURT kare to kia karna chaie Tue Feb 16, 2010 10:30 pm | |
| | maryam wrote: | agar koi baar baar hurt kary to bhi aap us se baat karna na chorrain...pather par pani ki boondain musal sal girain to us main soorakh ban jata hai ...
sa aap apny nazuk se dimagh ko kuch bhi akhaz karny ki zehmat na dain kion k har hadees ka koi na koi background hai pls pls kam az kam deeni maamlaat main baal ki khaal mat nikalain....jo hadees hai woh hai hamara iman ahadees ko bila chuncharan tasleem karny main hai ...in main apny fazool ki tehqeeq karny main nehi... |
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